Wow it is already the ninth month of 2019.
How time flies yet this pain is not going away. No, it will not .
Only the intensity diminishes with time. Trust me it does. However be encouraged in the fact that there are a lot of memories we can hold on to.
Some of the questions of grief centers around why we survive our losses. I have come to accept that Life is a class of one and our walk through our pains depends largely on our understanding of the issue of Life.. You must keep hope alive even in the time of excruciating pain as a result of the loss of a loved one. I feel you, trust me. Keep hope alive by keeping a positive perspective on Life – a class of one!!!
According to Leary E. Bonnet, ‘hope is a radical act of imagination that enables us to envision transcendent possibilities that are available through faith in God.’ Yes, release yourself to the will of your Creator. Remember too that the person that passed on will not want you trapped in a continual cycle of grief. Be rest assured that it is not a betrayal of your loved one for you to get better by moving away from the debilitating effects of grief.
Don’t get stuck in grief.
Shalom.