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To My Dearest Sister, Dupe Irele. With A Mother’s Heart and A Soul Full of Grace

My beloved sister Dupe, With a heart that understands too deeply the silent ache of loss, I write to you today as both a friend and a fellow mother who has walked this valley of grief. The memory of your beloved son, Ehiseme Osarieme Alonge, now ten years past, remains

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My heart to you

My community of grieving parents, I have your back. Exactly eight years today, when my only son was interred,  I cried out in agony that my life had been thrown six feet under. Alas, over the years my Maker  has seen me  through because I placed my trust completely in

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“Prayer for a grieving Mum” by Ifeanyi Asiodu

Dear God,   We come to you with heavy hearts, seeking comfort and strength for this mother who is remembering the loss of her son. We pray that you will bless her with the hope that her son is at peace, free from all pain and suffering, with you in

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Activity on 10 June – In remembrance of Ehi, we will be focusing on children, as they were truly dear to him

This weekend, Ehibam Griefshare Foundation will feed 250 street/impoverished children. We ask that you join us by doing something special towards such children around you – a smile, a touch, a gift – with thoughts of our dearest ‘Uncle Ehi’ in mind❤💝          

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Ehibam Griefshare Foundation Host 3rd Edo State School Rugby Tournament

LIST OF TEAMS AT THE 3rd EDITION OF THE EHIBAM SCHOOL RUGBY TOURNAMENT AT EDO BOYS HIGH SCHOOL, ADOLOR BOYS TEAMS 1. EDO BOYS HIGH SCH 2. IYEKOGBA SEC SCH 3. ASORO GRAMMER SCH 4. IHOGBE SEC SCH 5. Edo Boys High Sch Junior GIRLS TEAMS 1. Idia College 2.

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Journey to “new normal”

The past year has been an emotionally sapping one marked with the loss of many loved ones. We are bewildered, we are in shock and still wondering what lies ahead. Glory to God for the global steps taken on the roll-out of vaccines to cushion the impact of the devastation

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Emotional lockdown

This is a period of tough emotional journey for those who have grappled with grief in the recent past and those thrust suddenly into the dark journey of grief in the present clime. Anyone who has experienced the loss of a loved one in the recent past suddenly finds himself

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Mothers Day

Yes for those who have experienced the loss of a child we exhibit different kinds of emotions at this time of the year. However my message to us all is that we should be grateful for an opportunity to celebrate motherhood. Even if the physical emptiness stirs up negative emotions

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LIFTING

After the crushing, what next? Oh, how we all wish the cup had passed us by! However the reality is that we have experienced the loss of a loved one at one time or the other. Yes it has been a period of crushing. Indeed a period of crushing when

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After the crushing, what next?

Oh, how we all wish the cup had passed us by! However the reality is that we have experienced the loss of a loved one at one time or the other. Yes it has been a period of crushing. Indeed a period of crushing when you believe life can never

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Evening of Songs to commemorate Ehi’s birthday

Evening of Songs to commemorate Ehi’s birthday.

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Do not get stuck in grief!

Wow it is already the ninth month of 2019. How time flies yet this pain is not going away. No, it will not . Only the intensity diminishes with time. Trust me it does. However be encouraged in the fact that there are a lot of memories we can hold

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Ehibam Foundation promotes the game of Rugby

Ehibam Foundation promotes the game of Rugby by partnering with the organisers of tbe Lagos Beach Rugby which held on the 16th of March 2019. It was a great and exciting time out with the players and lovers of the game. The players were ethusiatic about the work of griefshare

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Grief journey and relationships

“ Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere and sometimes in the middle of nowhere you find yourself”. In your journey do not alienate family members and close friends who in most cases can lean into your pain. Experience has shown that many of them are able to

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Look expectantly to God for healing – Psalm 30: 5

When you find yourself suddenly in grief, it is really difficult to look expectantly to God. You find yourself questioning God for the pain and sorrow you are experiencing. You feel forsaken by Him, the ‘whys” get longer each new day and unconsciously you wait for answers that might not

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POEMS FORM THE HEART

I thought that time would have stopped if you had died, That sun and moon and stars would disappear, The earth itself vanish into darkness If I had lost a life I held so dear     But though you’re gone the sun still heralds the day And darkness only

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THE GAP

The gap between those who have lost children and those who have not is  profoundly difficult to bridge. No one, whose children are well and  intact can be expected to understand what parents who have lost children  have absorbed and what they bear. Our children come to us through every 

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HOPING FOR THAT WHICH IS NOT SEEN

Grief is indeed a personal experience of loss which translates into a lifelong process of emotions that is never “finished”. It is right to say that grief is not an illness that you recover from. Those who have experienced grief would say that grief journey is marked by agonizing pains

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